bonski’s box

Today  my wife and I celebrate our four years of being married. As always the day doesn’t start as smooth as we would like it to be. to say the least. A previous mistake I made, is still preventing her from not getting upset, so I was treated to a very cold shoulder when I called her early in the morning(1 am.) She’s still  obviously not over it, and I’m irritated that I don’t get the end of it. Finally, I told her if she conditioned herself thinking that way, then it is futile to even explain.

I know my wife and although she is sometimes very adamant on her stand, she is soft hearted on matters  which is stretched already and that isn’t going anywhere.  The end  result we patched up and  talked(though briefly damn the expensive overseas calls) and back to being sweet to each other.  Its amazing that we reached this year, but sometimes act a little childish on things. But then again maybe that’s how we mature.

Ironically though, we spent the time being apart. Hopefully when she’s here we’ll spend it together for years to come.